That's It, I'm Out Of Here - The Multi-Talented Quitter*

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*This is a collaborative post*

That’s it. You’ve had enough. You’re ready to throw in the towel. But you’re still wondering whether leaving is a sign of cowardice and fear. Here’s a little message for you, whoever you are, wherever you sit, if there’s something you want to leave behind, there is a reason for it. Quitting to find something new and better demands a lot of courage and motivation. Too many people stick with unhappy situations in their private and professional lives. If you’ve decided to improve your life and get rid of everything that wasn’t working, it’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a proof of strength. Be proud of you; you’re one of the multi-talented quitters who reshape their existence.

The helping hands on a moving day

There are many reasons for moving home. But at the core, when you move, you hope to bring some level of improvement into your life, whether by picking a bigger home or by choosing a friendlier neighbourhood. However, until you can sit down in your new home and enjoy a reinvigorating cup of tea, you need to go through a lot of challenges. Firstly, finding the perfect home takes time, and it’s something you need to plan with the support of a real estate agent. When it comes to the move itself, you can get professional removal teams on board to deal with the packing and transporting of your belongings. Ultimately, you don’t have to go through on your own.

The emotional quest for true love

It doesn’t matter how much you’ve invested in your relationship. There are signs that show that sometimes your efforts have been a waste of time. If a partner is too needy, you might end up with a blurred couple identity and lose yourself in it. Or maybe your partner is jealous of you. Not all relationships collapse as a result of an obvious fault, but you need to consider your personal needs as a priority. If you’re not happy, you could seek divorce advice from professionals. Don’t approach it as a defeat but as an opportunity to find a new love. Letting go of a dysfunctional relationship is the best thing you could do for your future happiness.

The secret hunt for a better career

You’re sitting at your office desk, reading an email while trying to make a phone call. In your back, you can feel the angry look of your manager, a petty person who’s got nothing better to do than complain about your work all the time, even when you didn’t make any mistake. Why should you take it anymore when you could offer your skills and experience to a better company? While you might want to keep your job search secret until you can resign, there’s nothing wrong in quitting a position that doesn’t suit you. Small companies are prone to developing unhealthy internal relationships, so it’s not uncommon to quit because you can’t deal with one person.

You shouldn’t worry about what it says about you but instead, focus on building a career that makes you happy.

The bottom line is that determination to make one thing work when it isn’t supposed to isn’t a positive trait. Women who chose to build their path as they see fit, and who listen to their desires and feelings, shouldn’t have to explain themselves. Choose to quit if it’s the right thing for you to do, and create something new and better. Quitters are no losers; they’re improvers.

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